share your Outer Child patterns
You are welcome to privately share with me your Outer Child patterns of self-sabotage and how they interfere in your life (in 200 words or less). My colleagues and I carefully read all submissions and uphold strict confidentiality. Due to volume we are unable to respond to your submission personally.
Be assured that the patterns and situations you submit are always disguised and scrambled, all identifying information removed, within my publications to protect your identity. I am grateful for your contributions to my 20-year anecdotal research project on abandonment and its aftermath of self-sabotage.
What is Outer Child?
Outer is the part of the personality that breaks your diet and gets attracted to all the wrong people. Outer says yes to a third glass of wine when you, the Adult, had decided on a two drink limit. Outer is an abandoholic – attracted only to the unavailable. Outer lounges around watching TV when you’ve decided to go to the gym.
Outer Child is a highly effective self-empowerment tool explored in depth in my books, workshops, and videos. Outer Child is a manifestation of unresolved abandonment. more about Outer Child.
Learn more about your own Outer Child by taking our 200-Item Outer Child checklist. Your entries over many years have contributed to this list .
Thank you for adding your voice to my work on self-sabotage and abandonment. You are helping others feel validated and less alone.